I’m tired of majority of homosexuals who could make a difference being complacent.  It takes everyone to take a stand and it mean something.  Everyone includes the homeless gay youth all the way to retired Supreme Court justices.  The ones we really need aren’t standing; their quietly supporting…

… and sometimes not even that.

How do we get this started?  How do we ignite the proper passion?

I struggle with these questions all the time.

I struggle as I support quietly and send my donations to various gay groups.  I listen to Michelangelo Signorile and I laugh with Frank DiCaro.  (I love Doria.)  I’m quiet, I don’t shout.  I rest easily hoping this wave of change will engulf me and carry me with it.  I do internet searches to see if we’re any closer.

I don’t support us loudly, most who can really make a change don’t.

How do we start this?  How do make this a reality?

In an age where sexy is too often defined by the size of the bicep or the less than appealing look of over-worked body builders, thank you for a return to simple sexy.  A return to a look which is measured by depth and simple desire.

The new movie, out now, is obviously targeting all the ladies.  And by association, all their gays.  Gays who not only fall in love with the thought of falling love but also fall in love with simplicity.

What’s more simple, easier to love, than Channing Tatum with his shirt off?

Dear John,

Thank you for letting us get back to the simple things.

1. “Avatar,” $68.3 million.

2. “Sherlock Holmes,” $38.4 million.

3. “Alvin and the Chipmunks: The Squeakquel,” $36.6 million.

4. “It’s Complicated,” $18.7 million.

5. “The Blind Side,” $12.7 million.

6. “Up in the Air,” $11.4 million.

7. “The Princess and the Frog,” $10 million.

8. “Did You Hear About the Morgans?”, $5.2 million.

9. “Nine,” $4.3 million.

10. “Invictus,” $4.1 million

Simpson, who is transgender, will be working in the Bureau of Industry and Security.

In a press release she stated, “I’m truly honored to have received this appointment and am eager and excited about this opportunity that is before me…And at the same time, as one of the first transgender presidential appointees to the federal government, I hope that I will soon be one of hundreds, and that this appointment opens future opportunities for many others.”

Simpson was most recently the Deputy Director in Advanced Technology Development at Raytheon Missile Systems in Tucson, Arizona. A flight instructor and test pilot, Simpson also holds degrees in physics, engineering, and business administration.

Jake Gyllenhall and Resse Witherspoon back together?

Rumor has it Jake Gyllenhaal isn’t ready to give up on Reese Witherspoon. 

The two reportedly called off their romance last month when academy award winning Reese Witherspoon decided she wasn’t ready to marry.  Prince of Persia star Jake Gyllenhaal is sending flowers, emails, and trying to woo her back.

Last month he sent her a $75,000 Christmas present.  Vintage European china for her home.

Honestly, they have to be the cutest couple in Hollywood.  They seem well suited from the outside.

Insiders say Witherspoon loves the attention she’s getting and is hoping the two will reach an understanding; she’s not ready to give up on him either.

Wow.  Flossing is incredibly dangerous.

In case you haven’t seen the eye candy, mancandy that is Cam Gigandet…

I survived, but still have flashbacks…  It was a hate crime.